Proven Online Dating Secrets for Men to Use

Proven Online Dating Secrets for Men to Use

Online dating has grown in popularity over the recent years, because it works or at least it can work. Women are, in general, cautious of meeting a man that she has been chatting with online. All they have heard about are the scary things that can happen and, I must say, they have a right to be careful to the extreme. That’s not only wise but vital. So what’s a nice guy to do? You don’t have any criminal background and you’re not a perverted sexual predator, or anything even remotely close. You are just a nice guy looking for the right girl for you.

Patience is a virtue. First thing to keep in mind is to not rush on getting her personal information, such as where she lives or her real name. Keep your conversations light and fun until she feels comfortable talking with you online. Don’t try to rush her into meeting face-to-face. If you make this mistake during online dating, she will think you are desperate or a pervert. Show Patience. Show Her Consideration. Men that are considerate of a woman’s comfort zone, by behaving in a gentlemanly fashion are not desperate.

Be absolutely honest about your physical appearance and job. A good relationship has never been, and will never be built on lies and deceit. Eventually she will find out the truth anyway and there you are back at square one.

A picture really is worth a thousand words. Post many pictures of yourself doing your everyday activities and make them full body shots, not just head shots. When you date a lady in person, it is not just your face she will see.

Once the discussion has been opened about meeting face-to-face for the first time, suggest that you meet in a very public place, during daylight hours and that she bring a friend with her. Since you have nothing to hide, this will make her more comfortable. You’ve told her the truth about yourself and she has already seen a lot of pictures of you. When dating women for the first time, it is important to make them feel safe.