The Art of Flirting and Online Dating

The Art of Flirting and Online Dating

Online flirting is similar to the way a skilled brick layer works with brick and mortar, brick by brick to make a lasting project strong, by using his knowledge of the tools and resources he has to complete the task. When it comes to online dating and flirting, you also need the right understanding on how to build your relationship. One thing needed in the art of flirting, is showing you have strong confidence, without being pushy, prideful or OTT. If you go too far, she will label you as: "slimy". But if you don’t take it far enough, she may think you are on the ’wimpy’ side. So how do you achieve that half-way point between slimy and wimpy when online, and unable to use eye contact or body language? You already have some of the tools needed with your computer, internet connection, membership with an online dating site and now you just need good flirting skills to bring it home.

1. First is to have some fun! Humor is key, so be light-hearted and entertaining in your conversations. This will help make her eager to talk with you again. Remember part of the art of flirting is being playful.

2. Show confidence. People successful in flirting have a positive outlook on life. You need to transmit the "feel good" factor.

An optimistic attitude attracts females like honey attracts flies.

3. Compliment her, and do it often and sincerely.

Nothing opens a door like making her feel good about herself. This will make her want to spend even more time chatting with you, and if she ever returns the compliment make sure you say, ’thank you’. Do not be self depreciating.

4. You need to be a good listener and always listen, listen, listen. Pay attention to what she says and ask appropriate questions. Get her to open up and talk about herself. Make her feel like she is interesting and that you are interested in her. Being a good listener will work wonders!

5. Don’t be rude. Flirting does not include being sexually explicit nor taking offence if the lady isn’t responding to you. You need to take the hint if she is not interested, and don’t hound her to respond, but instead just move on to the next prospect. If you find you are getting a lot of rejections then don’t lose your confidence you just need to reconsider your approach.

6. After chatting you can also send an email. This ranks right up there with sending a thank you note for a gift and it is vital to successful flirting.

Remember, do not move to fast, just take it easy. Flirting is the first step to a successful relationship.

Successful online dating can be summed up in the words of Ether Barrymore: "The best time to make friends is before you need them"; and, "Laughter is the shortest distance between two friends".