Sunday

Date Online and Get The Partner Of Your Dreams

Online Dating Tips

Dating online has been encountered with several disrespect all through the years.  Many individuals hold many views about dating online, and many of them are negative.  These are just some of the points of view about meeting people, for passionate purposes, in the virtual world:

-    It's not secure.  Individuals may use the shroud of secrecy supplied by the internet to pretend to be someone they're not.  They may be complete psychos feigning to be jolly men, for all we know.
-    It's quite embarrassing.  Dating online is a completely extreme and totally unusual way of encountering people for romantic opportunities.  Some individuals still dread having to answer a question like "where did you guys meet?" with a seemingly ridiculous reply like "in a website that tolerates individuals to judge their matching."
-    The internet is for losers.  There is this existing notion that dating online is only for individuals who can't look for companions in the real world for one reason or another.

But many - and I do mean MANY - people do find love on the internet.  Not just affection, mind you, but true love, the type that stays forever.  There are numerous "success" chrnonicles of lovers who have met online, worked at a long distance relationship initially, only to be with each other in due course and start a life of marital bliss.

How should dating online be deemed?

If partners in the 60s used to meet each other in demonstration rallies in opposition the Vietnam war, and if partners in the 70s used to meet each other in disco halls playing the newest disco music, and if pairs in the 80s used to meet each other in gatherings and other official happenings, then the pairs of today can most absolutely meet each other through dating online.

The internet is just another place where individuals can search for the love of their life.

Saturday

Sick of all the dating ebook scams? Find out if the Art of Approaching is another one...

You, like me may have heard a lot of things about this ebook called the Art of Approaching.

Naturally, I wanted to immediately review this book that apparently teaches men how to approach women!

The topic of approaching women is the focus of this book, and it is the ONLY book in the ENTIRE seduction community talking solely about this topic. This aspect is critical as it's probably the scariest part for men when they want to meet women.

I know from my personal experiences the feeling of approach anxiety and how scary it is when you want to approach a hot stranger. I know you can imagine how it feels, think about it, your heart rate is jumping, the palms of your hands are becoming sweatier and your adrenaline is racing. This sounds like you're going into war doesn't it!

This ebook, The Art of Approaching talks about approaching women in comprehensive detail, and is a great guide for this purpose. The book has several chapters and they include the topics relating to:

  • The Art Of Body Language
  • The Art Of Confidence
  • The Art Of Approaching
  • The Art Of Flirting
  • The Art Of Storytelling
  • The Art Of Being Social

Even though the book does cover other aspects of dating and seduction, the focus is mainly about the initial approach. It was mind opening to see how Joseph Matthews could break down the various elements required to successfully open women in detail.

I enjoyed the process whereby the author would show you how to directly open a woman. I like how the author points out 3 additional ways to approach women that I didn't even know about. For example using indirect or situational conversational openers. Further, the ebook talks about the mental aspect of approaching women.

The great thing to realize is that the author was not born a natural and had to learn through getting rejected constantly how to succeed with women. It's good to know that Joseph had to learn how to become successful with women, so he would know what it feels like when you get approach anxiety!

If you want to learn more about this book, why don’t you read my article about it: Art of Approaching review

 

Friday

How to Make a Girlfriend Out of a Friend

How do you turn that girl you friends with into a girlfriend? You have been friends for a long time but then one day it is like you see her for the first time you notice every time she smiles at you and looks you in the eye you heart beats faster. You slowly start to admit yourself that friendship is no longer enough and you want to act on that physical attraction you feel.

The big internal debate is do you risk ruining the friendship if you misread the signals and body language. You are asking yourself how do I convey your emotions. You think that it might be possible to evolve the relationship into something more but don’t know how to go about it. Your probably thinking how do I make a girlfriend out of a friend?

Listen don’t worry you aren’t condemned to admiring her from afar. There are some simple steps that that if you follow them can you can get you the women of your dreams.

First of though please be honest with yourself are you willing to give up the friendship that you have had? Please take heed once you move on the path to make her your girlfriend then it is impossible to ever be the friends you were again. Guys be sure in your decision if you are not 100% convinced then don't do it.

OK, you have decided that yes I want to turn my friend into a girlfriend then the first step is to change her way of thinking. Women organise men into two type’s boyfriends and everyone else. The trick is to get out of the “everyone else” category and into the “my boyfriend” category. Are you asking yourself how do I get her to see me as possible boyfriend?

Well men you got to begin acting like her boyfriend. You are asking yourself how do I go about this; guys it as easy a phoning her up and then tell her that what ever her plans were forget them as you are going to take her for a cocktail/dinner and a moonlight stroll. When you do this be understated but at the same time resolute and make it an option so enticing that she can’t say no.

The lady in question may say “Oh but I have other plans with my girlfriends”. The real important thing to remember is that you have to be self-assured. Women love confident men who take the lead. Woman love men who take control it is an alpha male thing. You have to say in reply “Hey I do not care cancel your plans because I am coming round to pick you up at (whatever time).

Whatever you don’t take her to a movie, concert or a show on the first five dates. The reason being is you are going to talk to her. Find out all about her on another deeper level. You are going to talk to her as a lover and not as a friend. You need to learn her desires, her wants, her wishes find out where her other boyfriends went wrong so you don’t make that mistake. You have to make her the focus of the conversation and make sure you really listen to her ad she knows that you are.

No most importantly make sure you give her a goodnight kiss. If you don’t you are screwed because she will see you as a very nice friend who had just bought her a drink/dinner and you will being a worse position than before.

If you follow this plan and you don’t get the response you want i.e. unfortunately she doesn't she you as boyfriend material. There are two choices open to you acknowledge the situation and make yourself scarce in the anticipation that she may miss you and then decides you might have a life together. The second option is to begin working on her lack of enthusiasm. In this case say something similar to “I accept that you don’t see me that way UNTIL NOW BUT I understand you well and this will be the foundation of our relationship”.

In conclusion guys you have the power to make a girlfriend out of a friend it requires you to be bold, strong and dynamic and behave in way that shows the girl that you the man that could take care of her and she finds attractive and therefore perfect boyfriend material. Visit my site friend to lover and get that girl today.

Sunday

Great dating advise for dating a woman

Asking her for a date:

•    Before asking her out for a  date, try to have some conversation together. This will be an opportunity for you to discover if your personalities and ideas are attuned with each other, before you do decide to ask her out for a date.

•    When calling through the phone.Don’t forget to mention the conversations you had with her.  This will give her the impression that you do listen, making her feel important.  Then if you feel that it is time to ask her, go ahead; ask gently, not in a demanding manner.

•    Ask when you both are alone.  Never ask a girl out on a date in front of others, like her friends.  If she says no, you will both be embarrassed.

During the date:

•    Look good, be neat.  Put extra effort to the way you look.  Take the time be well groomed, smell nice and choose your clothes well.  It must correspond to the place with which your date is set.Make a good impression, so that your date will be happy and proud to be with you.

•    Do not be late.  Prepare for the big day ahead.  Make the necessary reservations and planning for your date.  If you have planned for it, she will be impressed that you did put some effort on your night together.  Be sure that during the big day you have no appointments so you won’t be cramming and be on time.

•    Be polite.Make sure to complement her on the way she looks.When you are seated at the table, be shure to turn off your cell phone.  This will signal to her that you are very much interested in your moment together.

Call her by name.  Make it a point to say her name every so often in your conversations, to make her feel at ease and special.

•    Smile.Apart from having a positive attitude, smile as this is an indication that you are happy to be with her.

Use Your Sence of Humar.  Making a woman laugh means you have won half your battle.This means that she is having a great date and will create a positive atmosphere.  This will be an occasion she would remember, because she had fun!

•    Be attentive.  Listen to what she has to say, do not interrupt.Make eye contact and let her finish, before you state your opinion.

•    Be honest.  Let her get to know you by telling her what you do and what interests you.  If she does not like you for who you are, then she is not worth your time.  Show interest in her too, by asking her about her work, hobbies and her likes.  Be sensible and honest in initiating such conversations.

•    Relax.Don't worry about your date not having a good time.  Go ahead and ask her.  Just manage yourself well and enjoy the evening.  Keep the conversations open and ask questions.  Be sincere.

•    Do not pretend.  Be yourself.  Pretending to be somebody that you’re not will not work in the long run.  The truth will always come out sooner or later.  It is a rewarding feeling if someone is drawn to you for who you really are.

•    Never compare.  It will be very unfair of you if you compare your date to your past girlfriend.  Keep in mind that she is a totally different person with her own personality.  Take the time to discover her; you might be pleased if you do.  Comparing won’t get you anywhere. 
•    Never tell your date about the break-up of a previous relationship.  Keep in mind that you asked her out so you both could have fun together.  She is not your therapist, so do not recount your past relationship.  Bury the past and move on.  Here is a woman in front of you who is interested to know you more.  Get to know her too, initiate a conversation that could lead to a common interest.

•    Enjoy.  Dating should be exciting and relaxing.  A woman can sense if you are enjoying your time with her or not.  Don’t stress yourself trying so hard to make it the perfect date because it won’t be.  But you both can enjoy it.  After all, you did invite her out because you liked her in the first place.  Be spontaneous and have fun.

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Tuesday

Learn How To Attract Women Secrets

Do you ask yourself, how to attract women? It's great to realize that, God was fair and did not create a rigid format of rules that decide if you get women or not. That is why it is not a great thing. Because you only have some general guidelines that you can follow so I can't give you a structured thing to say to get you results 100% of the time.

This is what I can provide you, a list of things a guy must have in his personality to attract women. You need to have these qualities in your persona to get girls.

Attracting girls doesn't mean you need heaps of cash or looks or any of the jazz the media reckons you need. But having money or good looks does not hurt either.

So the things you need to know in order learn how to attract women are:

  • You let her realize that you are not interested in being a normal friend - Why is the case so important? If you find yourself in the friend zone, then you will be in the wrong part of a woman's mind. You will not be in a place where you are considered to be romantic relationship material. I cannot help you with the answer to why. It just so happens in that way.
  • You are a man - Women like men! I don't understand why do men try to act like women? It must have something to do with the way society is trying to teach men that they need to be that girly new age type of man. But you know what. Girls have been attracted to guys who acted like men since... since civilization began. Chances are if you act like a man and not a metro wuss you will be able to attract women.
  • You come across as a high status male - Mentioned earlier, women have always been attracted to men who act like men. I wonder what causes this? Because these guys have a higher social status. Chillax, you do not need $ or cars to demonstrate this to her. You only need to let her knwo that you have a personality of a high status guy.
  • You are a challenge - Put simply, people like things they can't have. This is especially true if they can't have you! You ever wondered sluts in society are looked down upon? The primary factor is because they are not a challenge. The same is true for attracting women. Play hard to get!
  • You are not a wuss - That means, you say no to girls and their demands! You return a favor in exchange for one she provides. Eg. I ask her in a playful way, what do I get for helping her out? What makes you want to do these things? Why? High status males don't just do things for anyone. Not because you need the favor. They must deserve what they earn!

That's just a short and quick summary of notes you might want to consider when you want to attract women. For a full list of details check out How To Attract Women

There's also a FREE 6 part seduction mini course on the site, so you can learn about seduction secrets in a structured format - nice!