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5 dating turnoffs for women men should know about

Women are pretty hard people to please, especially on first dates and guys should really know about the things that turn them off and make them glance at their watch often. This means they want to leave gentlemen, and all your effort, that new shirt you bought, the cologne, the gift you brought along will be all put to waste by just one mistake.

There are simply some mistakes which guys make which gets them a red card flashed within thirty minutes. The time has arrived for men to bask in the warmth of love rather than loning away in their corner pondering for the date who excused themselves to he restroom. These are 5 dating turnoffs for women men should really know about. The first one is timing. Never, ever be late and no matter how good your excuse is, you have already ruined the date. Being tells them you are tardy, don’t place any importance on the date and all  - which makes them lose a lot of interest in a very short time. Just like a war makes an investment market plunge, her opinion of you will fall faster than rocks from height – so keep a good eye on the time and if you can, be there a bit ahead of schedule.

Another thing, dress good and pay attention to detail. It isn’t the 80’s anymore, so mismatched socks and messy hair doesn’t work unless your name is Sid Vicious. Dress casually in something you can pull off and never overdress for an occasion. You know how women always say that men always don’t listen? Well take that advice too heart. Whether or not women seem to have always something to say and men have something else to look at, it is always good to appear that you are listening and at least answer some of her questions. Make positive remarks now and then complimenting her on her dressing and all. This usually will top her charts pretty fast. Don’t be a lecher and leer all over her. This is a turn off and tells her that you are only interested in one thing and one thing only.

Look into her eyes and smile into her face. Never stare all the way down her blouse or top, it is an ardous task for men to refrain from this, ladies understand that and that is simply the reason behind this little test. If you must have a look, try to pull it off as a joke or do it discreetly. She wants you to look but she also wants to see if you can practice some self restraint. Women are tricky that way. And don’t get high or drunk on the first date, especially when you guys set it up at a bar. It is bad form. And don’t try to ply her with drinks; women know when you are just being generous or trying to get her drunk and in bed. If you have all these pointers in mind, any man will be successful on a first date, the rest is up to your personality and know how.

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